You don’t need to be a teacher or have a master’s degree in education to offer your toddler an enriching day at home. Everyday activities can prepare him to eventually read, write, do math, and more. “Whether you’re doing it consciously or unconsciously, every parent acts as a teacher,” says Tim Seldin, president of The Montessori Foundation and author of How to Raise an Amazing Child. Follow these tips to build your toddler’s skill set—and help him develop a love of learning.
BRAIN-BOOSTING ACTIVITY: Reading Books
“One of the most effective and proven ways to build literacy is reading aloud,” says Candace Lindemann, a curriculum designer and owner of Naturally Educational, a consulting firm. Do it cuddled up together in a comfy chair: “That way, your toddler will associate reading with having your positive attention, and her interest will grow,” Lindemann notes. If your squirmer won’t sit still for a story, no problem. To engage her more, ask simple questions about what’s happening, or even change the name of the protagonist to your child’s name, suggests Alice McAdam, program manager for the Parents As Teachers program at Hillside Family of Agencies, in Rochester, New York. “This may give her the feeling that she’s the one having the adventure.” The more you read together, the more your child will catch on to the connection between the story, the pictures, and the words on the page. Over time, you might notice that she begins to remember the sequence of a beloved book. After that, she’ll realize that the squiggles on the page are symbols that have meaning, which is the first step on the road to reading, Lindemann notes.
BRAIN-BOOSTING ACTIVITY: Checking Out the Shape of Things
Stacking blocks, doing puzzles, and playing with objects of different shapes and sizes are key ways to help your child learn about spatial relationships, geometry, and other pre-math concepts. “Children are sensory-oriented, and they learn through their body, so they need to physically feel the shape of a triangle or discover that one block is different than two by holding them to understand the abstract concept of shapes and numbers,” says McAdam. So give your kid a pile of toddler-friendly Lego Duplo bricks or some brightly colored nesting cups to play with on the living-room floor. While you’re busy in the kitchen, let him stack Tupperware or sort spoons. Then ask questions: “Which container is bigger? Which cup fits in this bowl?”
BRAIN-BOOSTING ACTIVITY: Discovering Nature
Exploring the natural world is an ideal way for toddlers to learn the fundamentals of science. For example, teaching your child about biology could be as easy as putting a goldfish in a bowl where she can observe it or planting seeds in a window box so she can witness the life cycle of a plant. “Pay attention to what she’s interested in, and use that as a springboard for learning,” McAdam suggests. If your child is captivated by dirt or rocks, go outside and do some digging, while asking questions like, “What does the soil feel and smell like? Is that pebble smooth? Does it make a sound when it drops?” The more you teach your child to use her senses, the more you’re helping her become a trained observer, like a scientist, Seldin says.